Monday, December 3, 2012

A new sexual revolution

Despite the sexual revolution in the 1960s, the fact is, many Americans still feel that sex is a taboo. Each person has different sexual preferences and though there are those who are very vocal about their needs in bed, there still are others who opt to keep silent for fear of being called vulgar.

Researchers nowadays are saying that another sexual revolution is well underway, as evidenced by the high rating of shows that has sex-related content. In a recent study conducted by Jean Twenge of San Diego University, it was found out that 50% of teenage girls are already having sex, and are also considered the leaders of the teen sexual revolution in the new world. The issue of oral sex is now seen in a new light as more and more teenagers no longer see it as disgusting. The trend shows that sex has moved past the boundaries of relationships, marriage and pleasure towards the quest for pleasure.

With the knowledge of teenage sex, how many parents have bothered to educate their children about the pros (if any) and cons of early sexual activities? Studies show that parents would rather pretend that their children have no idea what sex is yet and talking about it would make them more curious, which could lead to experimentation.

But this is definitely not the case. Children can now access sites featuring couples having live sex, or a live sex show with hot models as stars. No, teenagers nowadays are no longer as innocent as we want them to be, and despite the many precautions parents take to prevent their children from sexy webcam chat rooms and club live sex, it just isn’t enough. Children still need to be educated by their parents. They need to know that they are not the only one experiencing things such as arousal or even masturbation. Children are confused and for them to be properly guided towards their societal roles, parents still has the biggest part of it.

I still believe that the biggest problem with the teenage lies on the fact that technically speaking, they still are children. Biologically, teenage girls are not yet equipped to bear healthy children. Aside from this, the spread of sexually transmitted diseases can easily affect teenagers as most of them refuses to follow the lesson taught in sexual education.

People blame teenage pregnancy to the proliferation of sex-related media and easy access to porn sites. It is true that several studies have found a relationship between early sexual experimentation and sexual innuendos in TVs and movies. But hey, you can’t blame everything to media. True, the media is cluttered with so much sex-related content but still, you are responsible for your kids. Cam to cam sex stars don’t tell your children to go out and have sex with the next girl they see. Leaving your children uneducated and clueless about this topic when everyone else is talking can only leave them to be more curious if not as closed up as you are, and the cycle continues.

A BIG education

What is it with men and big boobs? Anatomically, these are glands which we humans use to feed our young. Technically it’s just another one of nature’s many designs to help us propagate and survive. As one may already know, breasts develop in the puberty stage with a girl’s hormones going haywire, no one can say how big it’s going to get. Studies say that the size of the breast depends on the support it gets from the chest. Breast growth increases rapidly during pregnancy and typically, the size of the breast fluctuates throughout the menstrual cycle. During old age, the breasts sag because the ligaments supporting it usually elongates.

Anyway, humans are the only animals in the kingdom animal which has breasts that are permanently swollen, even when not lactating. Because of this, several studies have been made to find out the other functions of the breasts, more commonly known in the streets as big tit. According to scientists, animals mate when their partners are ovulating. Most animals know this because of the swollen breast of the female. For humans, this is also the same. Males find women with big boobs more attractive because it is associated with ovulation. Now for other primates, they usually have rear-entry copulation, thereby the basis for attractiveness is usually the buttocks. I know, rear-entry can also be done by humans, but of course, this wouldn’t get the woman pregnant. Since sex is a basic instinct created by nature to propagate our species, we need to reproduce. It is said that the breast is the frontal counterpart of the buttocks, and due to our upright posture, humans are more likely to copulate face to face, or the position we know as missionary. This meant that because sex needed a face on encounter, the partners needed to develop a relationship which goes beyond the sexual one. Now of course these are the rantings of a woman whose breast size has always been smaller than the average.

In 1986, the dream of many boob-men in the world came true with the publication of Juggs, a softcore pornography magazine. The magazine’s name was actually the slang term for breasts. The magazine is still being printed today but there are other alternatives that replaced it in our modern world. You have big movie, and big tit porn. You have bouncing tits, big tit Latinas and big tit teens.

Unfortunately, despite the fascination of men in the US for big boobs, there are some cultures which don’t think that it is a worthy area of study. Breasts were seen as natural as writers and painters refer to it time and time again without any qualms on the subject. According to studies, however, not all men, prefer big tits, the best size is always described as “small, white, round like apples, hard, firm and wide apart.”

Friday, November 30, 2012

7 Sex Tips for Parents



Sex life?  What sex life?  You’re a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them.  It can seem like your own needs don’t matter, it’s the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them.  Don’t be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn’t good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children.  Sure you can’t do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes in different ways.  But you are still an adult with adult needs and for you to feel fulfilled they need to be met.

So how do you find time and energy for sex when there are so many other things demanding your attention?  It takes a bit more planning and effort than in the past but you need to tell yourself that it can happen and it is definitely worth it.

What if you don’t want anyone touching you after having children crawling all over you all day?  Some people have a quotient for the amount of physical contact they need and can comfortably accommodate in a day.  But if you think about it children touch you differently to how your partner touches you and for the most part, it’s all take.

So how do you have more sex?  Okay, how do you have any sex?

1. Make it a priority and it will happen.  Feeding the children quickly becomes a priority when you have nagging children at your feet.  Make your desires like that and don’t let up until you have got what you need.

2. Find a time that works.  It may be early in the morning before the children wake up, it may be immediately after they’ve gone to bed ignoring the dishes and the washing and cleaning up, it may be during the day while the kids are watching a video.  You have to make time for each other. 

3. Do some things that make you think about sex.  It can be hard to switch your brain from babyland to sex so you may need a little help.  Watch a sexy movie, read erotic fiction together, write your partner a sexy note, think back to a time when you had great sex (c’mon you can do that, it can’t be that long, surely, you have children afterall!), relive how good it felt.

4. Take a shower together.  There is something about getting naked and wet together that can be very erotic.

5. Expect interruptions and don’t be put off.  OK you start kissing and you hear a baby cry.  You try to ignore it but you can’t.  So you go off and tend to them and then think the moment is gone.  But it isn’t.  And if it is then get it back by viewing the interruption as a diversion which has increased your appetite for sex not soured it.

6. Don’t wait until you get into bed to initiate sex.  When you’ve been together awhile it’s easy to fall into habits, like falling into a deep sleep as soon as your head touches the pillow, and sometimes it’s those habits that you need to break in order to kickstart your sex life.  Sex can happen anywhere so make use of the spaces you have. 

7. And the most important thing you need to do – don’t give up!  You can find a way to make it happen.  Know that your needs are important and you will function better when they’ve been met.



Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Methods of Breast Enlargement



Women continue being more and more mindful of how they look . Most women with small breasts suffer from low self esteem . There are many natural breast enlargement procedures and products available nowadays . While some of them are effective , some are ineffective and to some extent dangerous if used inappropriately or if the procedures are carried out by quacks .This article describes six major natural breast enlargement methods .

1 . Breast massage

Breast massage has been proven to improve the shape and firmness of the breasts as well as increasing their size . It boosts healthy growth of breasts , facilitates breast tone and makes breasts
flexible and firm .

Breast massage tones , shapes and encourages the growth of the area around the breast as well as the breast itself , giving you an incredible bust . It melts scar tissue and encourages tissue regeneration . It also restores peace of mind and confidence just like body massage .Other vital benefits of breast massage include increasing awareness on the health of one's breasts by enabling one to check for lumps which could indicate cancer of the breast .

2 . Herbal treatment

This natural breast enlargement method is commonly combined with breast massage . Herbal creams help tone , firm and expand breasts and is very useful in repairing sagging or out of shape breasts .Some popular ingredients are such as saw palmetto , wild yam , fennel seed ,dandelion ,soy and gingsen . These work by boosting estrogen levels .

Onions have also proven to be useful in firming up breasts and preventing sagging . A powdered mixture of honey , onion juice and turmeric is used in breast massage to work this wonder . The procedure will usually be followed by wearing a bra all day and/ or overnight before taking a shower .
There are herbal supplements in form of pills which are equally effective . However , it is important to note that some of these supplements may have side effects hence seeking professional advice
before using them is highly recommended .

3 . Breast enlargement pills

This method has been debated for a very long time now with no conclusive agreement reached on the effectiveness of these pills . While most women claim that some pills work , others argue that any changes are temporary with a few reporting no changes at all . Manufacturers claim that they work by boosting estrogen production .

This method is however not to be relied on and caution should be taken because some might be dangerous .

4 . Breast enlargement creams

These are commonly used hand in hand with pills . They improve the skin texture and tone as well as the firmness of the breasts . Creams are used to sustain changes achieved by using pills .A major side effect is soreness . Users are therefore advised to use creams temporarily for a period of not more than 90 days for the best outcome .

5 . Constant caressing of breasts

*Kindly note that no vulgar language is intended*

This concept is more mythical than practical but passes the validity test only because it is somehow similar to breast massage which is scientifically proven .

6 . Healthy diet and lifestyle

Healthy eating and living is a perfect form of natural breast enlargement and improvement . Foods containing vitamins A , E and C facilitate breast enhancement . Drinking water also detoxifies the body and improves breast tissue . As mentioned earlier , foods such as saw palmetto boosts estrogen levels , consequently resulting to breast growth .

In conclusion , it is important to carefully analyses the pros and cons of using each of the above natural breast enlargement method as well as considering applicability of the methods since some methods may work for some people and fail to work for others due to different body constitutions .

Usually your breasts lose their firmness and elasticity due to aging , breastfeeding or not using the proper sized bra . Thus they need to be improved to regain their natural appearance . Triatomic is a high quality , natural breast enhancement product that is developed at Smith Myers Laboratories from high quality natural ingredients . The serum is applied topically directly on the breasts twice a
day for the best results .