Friday, November 30, 2012

7 Sex Tips for Parents



Sex life?  What sex life?  You’re a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them.  It can seem like your own needs don’t matter, it’s the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them.  Don’t be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn’t good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children.  Sure you can’t do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes in different ways.  But you are still an adult with adult needs and for you to feel fulfilled they need to be met.

So how do you find time and energy for sex when there are so many other things demanding your attention?  It takes a bit more planning and effort than in the past but you need to tell yourself that it can happen and it is definitely worth it.

What if you don’t want anyone touching you after having children crawling all over you all day?  Some people have a quotient for the amount of physical contact they need and can comfortably accommodate in a day.  But if you think about it children touch you differently to how your partner touches you and for the most part, it’s all take.

So how do you have more sex?  Okay, how do you have any sex?

1. Make it a priority and it will happen.  Feeding the children quickly becomes a priority when you have nagging children at your feet.  Make your desires like that and don’t let up until you have got what you need.

2. Find a time that works.  It may be early in the morning before the children wake up, it may be immediately after they’ve gone to bed ignoring the dishes and the washing and cleaning up, it may be during the day while the kids are watching a video.  You have to make time for each other. 

3. Do some things that make you think about sex.  It can be hard to switch your brain from babyland to sex so you may need a little help.  Watch a sexy movie, read erotic fiction together, write your partner a sexy note, think back to a time when you had great sex (c’mon you can do that, it can’t be that long, surely, you have children afterall!), relive how good it felt.

4. Take a shower together.  There is something about getting naked and wet together that can be very erotic.

5. Expect interruptions and don’t be put off.  OK you start kissing and you hear a baby cry.  You try to ignore it but you can’t.  So you go off and tend to them and then think the moment is gone.  But it isn’t.  And if it is then get it back by viewing the interruption as a diversion which has increased your appetite for sex not soured it.

6. Don’t wait until you get into bed to initiate sex.  When you’ve been together awhile it’s easy to fall into habits, like falling into a deep sleep as soon as your head touches the pillow, and sometimes it’s those habits that you need to break in order to kickstart your sex life.  Sex can happen anywhere so make use of the spaces you have. 

7. And the most important thing you need to do – don’t give up!  You can find a way to make it happen.  Know that your needs are important and you will function better when they’ve been met.



Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Methods of Breast Enlargement



Women continue being more and more mindful of how they look . Most women with small breasts suffer from low self esteem . There are many natural breast enlargement procedures and products available nowadays . While some of them are effective , some are ineffective and to some extent dangerous if used inappropriately or if the procedures are carried out by quacks .This article describes six major natural breast enlargement methods .

1 . Breast massage

Breast massage has been proven to improve the shape and firmness of the breasts as well as increasing their size . It boosts healthy growth of breasts , facilitates breast tone and makes breasts
flexible and firm .

Breast massage tones , shapes and encourages the growth of the area around the breast as well as the breast itself , giving you an incredible bust . It melts scar tissue and encourages tissue regeneration . It also restores peace of mind and confidence just like body massage .Other vital benefits of breast massage include increasing awareness on the health of one's breasts by enabling one to check for lumps which could indicate cancer of the breast .

2 . Herbal treatment

This natural breast enlargement method is commonly combined with breast massage . Herbal creams help tone , firm and expand breasts and is very useful in repairing sagging or out of shape breasts .Some popular ingredients are such as saw palmetto , wild yam , fennel seed ,dandelion ,soy and gingsen . These work by boosting estrogen levels .

Onions have also proven to be useful in firming up breasts and preventing sagging . A powdered mixture of honey , onion juice and turmeric is used in breast massage to work this wonder . The procedure will usually be followed by wearing a bra all day and/ or overnight before taking a shower .
There are herbal supplements in form of pills which are equally effective . However , it is important to note that some of these supplements may have side effects hence seeking professional advice
before using them is highly recommended .

3 . Breast enlargement pills

This method has been debated for a very long time now with no conclusive agreement reached on the effectiveness of these pills . While most women claim that some pills work , others argue that any changes are temporary with a few reporting no changes at all . Manufacturers claim that they work by boosting estrogen production .

This method is however not to be relied on and caution should be taken because some might be dangerous .

4 . Breast enlargement creams

These are commonly used hand in hand with pills . They improve the skin texture and tone as well as the firmness of the breasts . Creams are used to sustain changes achieved by using pills .A major side effect is soreness . Users are therefore advised to use creams temporarily for a period of not more than 90 days for the best outcome .

5 . Constant caressing of breasts

*Kindly note that no vulgar language is intended*

This concept is more mythical than practical but passes the validity test only because it is somehow similar to breast massage which is scientifically proven .

6 . Healthy diet and lifestyle

Healthy eating and living is a perfect form of natural breast enlargement and improvement . Foods containing vitamins A , E and C facilitate breast enhancement . Drinking water also detoxifies the body and improves breast tissue . As mentioned earlier , foods such as saw palmetto boosts estrogen levels , consequently resulting to breast growth .

In conclusion , it is important to carefully analyses the pros and cons of using each of the above natural breast enlargement method as well as considering applicability of the methods since some methods may work for some people and fail to work for others due to different body constitutions .

Usually your breasts lose their firmness and elasticity due to aging , breastfeeding or not using the proper sized bra . Thus they need to be improved to regain their natural appearance . Triatomic is a high quality , natural breast enhancement product that is developed at Smith Myers Laboratories from high quality natural ingredients . The serum is applied topically directly on the breasts twice a
day for the best results .